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With all due respect to all of you, please keep your speculations or opinions as to my role or nature or choices as a woman OFF THIS LIST!!! GET A LIFE!, PLAY COOL MUSIC and leave my reproductive tract THE HELL OUT OF THIS!!!, K? thanks... Cara At 08:53 AM 4/1/03 -0800, you wrote: >Hi Mark, >But yes, i definetly find the vasectomy a great choice >if you donīt want any more children. >after 2 kids i am giving it a serious consideration >(my apologies for the major off topic gang) >cheers >l.a >--- Mark Sottilaro <sine@zerocrossing.net> wrote: >> No offense taken at all... but although this is >> major off topic, I went >> totally willing. I thought, "Am I going to miss an >> aspect of life I >> shouldn't miss?" then I thought, does the world need >> another human. >> No. Do I have any free time to spend raising a >> child? No. Not >> without it seriously cutting into my music time. >> >> We've got close friends with a 3 year old and we >> spend time with them >> almost every week. Plus, with two bratty cats, >> we're pretty much full >> up here. My wife has never wanted children and we >> both agreed that it >> was probably bad for her to take hormones for the >> rest of her life. >> The trade was pretty good IMO, just had to sit on an >> icepack for a week >> or so. >> >> Anyway, thanks for your concern, but none was >> necessary. >> >> Mark Sottilaro >> >> On Tuesday, April 1, 2003, at 12:28 AM, Louie Angulo >> wrote: >> >> >> Mark sorry to hear that brother,without ofence it >> is >> > strange for a mature woman to choose this option >> as it >> > is in their nature to have babies.I couldnt begin >> to >> > tell you how my kids have changed my life and how >> much >> > you learn about yourself through them.Children and >> > animals are the highest form of purity in this >> world >> > and as much of a burden people think they are ,one >> > smile from your own child has no price and it can >> be >> > the medicine to all of your frustrations.Their >> > inocence is something for us to go back and learn >> from >> > as it gets lost along the way.This is why they are >> to >> > me the true representation of god.When my 4 year >> old >> > grabs my guitar and tries to seriously show my 2 >> year >> > old daughter how he can play like me i watch them >> > secretly in awe... he can barely carry it and i >> have >> > tears in my eyes from laughing! >> > P.S.(If you saved some of your fruitful sperm you >> > still have a chance!) >> > >> >> Someone like my wife, who's never wanted children >> >> and drove me to my >> >> vasectomy to make sure it didn't happen, must >> have >> >> been crazy to choose >> >> to be barren and spend her extra leisure time >> doing >> >> music, graphic and >> >> jewelry design when she could have had the joy of >> >> bearing and raising >> >> my children instead. (who I'm sure would be >> sweet >> >> little angels, just >> >> like I am/was) Also, I see that my reason to >> make >> >> music is totally >> >> different now that I'm infertile. >> > >> > >> > >> > >> >> >> > >> > ===== >> > www.labalou.com >> > >> > __________________________________________________ >> > Do you Yahoo!? >> > Yahoo! Tax Center - File online, calculators, >> forms, and more >> > http://platinum.yahoo.com >> > >> > > >===== >www.labalou.com > >__________________________________________________ >Do you Yahoo!? >Yahoo! Tax Center - File online, calculators, forms, and more >http://platinum.yahoo.com > > --- "The only things I really think are important, are love, and eachother. -Then, anything is possible..." http://home.earthlink.net/~thefates Please visit BadFiction and The Guitar Cafe. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/badfiction http://groups.yahoo.com/group/the-guitar-cafe