RE: off topic--indulge me please

["Nick Schillace" <nickschillace@hotmail.com>]

>From: "Neil Goldstein" <ngold@home.com>
>Reply-To: Loopers-Delight@loopers-delight.com
>To: <Loopers-Delight@loopers-delight.com>
>Subject: RE: off topic--indulge me please
>Date: Fri, 22 Jun 2001 09:18:38 -0700
>
>As long as I've put in some hours in the garden and cleaning house, my 
>wife
>lets me do what I want. Sometimes I lament she's not involved in the 
>musical
>creativity, but getting psychic space to do my thing is a gift, and I know
>that's something not to take for granted. IT could be worse.
>
>Neil
>
> > -----Original Message-----
> > From: Emile Tobenfeld (a.k.a Dr. T) [mailto:emile@foryourhead.com]
> > Sent: Friday, June 22, 2001 7:36 AM
> > To: Loopers-Delight@loopers-delight.com
> > Subject: Re: off topic--indulge me please
> >
> >
> > At 1:33 AM -0400 6/22/01, Jehn wrote:
> > >Anyone else here have conflicts with their significant others
> > >concerning time spent doing music vs time spent with them??
> > >
> > >Jehn
> >
> > Its happened. Once a long -time girl-friend got mad and decided to
> > break up when I spent a day in the studio instead of with her. She
> > changed her mind a day later, but I had realized that the
> > relationship was 'stuck' anyway, and decided that the breakup was
> > wise.
> >
> > Some years later, she introduced me to the woman who is now my wife!
> > --
> >
> > "The reasonable man adapts himself to the world. The unreasonable man
> > persists in adapting the world to himself. Therefore, all progress
> > depends on the unreasonable man.
> >
> > --  George Bernard Shaw
> >
> >             Emile Tobenfeld, Ph. D.
> > Video Producer                      Image Processing Specialist
> > Video for your HEAD!                        Boris FX
> > http://www.foryourhead.com          http://www.borisfx.com
> >
>
My significant other is a photographer and is real into her art. She 
doesn't 
get as obsessed as I do, but it still bugs her that no matter how much 
time 
I spend in my studio, I complain that I need more. The solution, kinda, 
was 
to help build her a dark room adjacent to my basement studio. It helps 
keep 
us working together even if were not realy working on the same thing. As a 
bonus I often have to work in total darkness when she's developing film.
N
_________________________________________________________________
Get your FREE download of MSN Explorer at http://explorer.msn.com